I reread the message on my phone at least ten times. Was she serious? She had spent her whole life providing me with \u201ceverything I needed,\u201d so why was I struggling now? Honestly, I felt abandoned, betrayed, and hurt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Credit card rewards<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I started typing a passionate response, but I stopped myself. I decided to speak to her in person. Maybe she didn\u2019t realize just how tough things were for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I called her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cMum, I don\u2019t think you understand,\u201d I said when she picked up. \u201cI\u2019m drowning here, and you\u2019re living like a queen.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She sighed on the other end of the line. \u201cI understand, darling. Please understand that this is my time now. I\u2019ve spent decades worrying about you, about work and bills. I gave up my dreams so you could have opportunities I never had.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I scoffed. \u201cWhat\u2019s the point of all those opportunities if I\u2019m still struggling?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She spoke softly after a pause. \u201cTell me, darling. What do you need?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I hesitated. \u201cI don\u2019t know. Help with credit card debt, rent, maybe car payments. A little relief.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
My mum sighed again. \u201cI\u2019ll be honest. I love you more than anything, but money won\u2019t fix this. You need to figure out how you got here.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Family game nights<\/p>\n\n\n\n
That stung. \u201cSo you\u2019re saying it\u2019s my fault?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNo, it\u2019s your responsibility.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It took me a moment to respond. My fingers clenched around the phone as I fought to control my anger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Credit card rewards<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She continued. \u201cYou\u2019re not young anymore. You have a good job, right?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cYes, but it barely covers everything.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cAnd what about managing your budget? Have you looked at your spending?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I stayed silent because, truth be told, I hadn\u2019t. I knew I was spending too much, but I didn\u2019t want to admit it. I was living paycheck to paycheck, swiping my card whenever I needed something, hoping everything would somehow work out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mum said gently, \u201cListen, I didn\u2019t raise you to be helpless. I know it\u2019s hard, but you can get through this. I\u2019ll always be here if you need more than just a temporary solution. I want to help you in the long term.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Family game nights<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cLike what?\u201d I asked, skeptical.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cFirst, I can sit down with you to review your finances. Maybe help you manage your budget and cut down on unnecessary spending. I can also recommend a financial advisor.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A humorless laugh escaped me. \u201cNo easy money?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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